GET
ORGANIZED
for school success
Parent Spot
for Parents of Middle School Students
One
of the biggest challenges students will face during their middle
school years will come from an unexpected source. It isn’t making
the basketball team or having to memorize a long list of
mathematical formulas. According to counselors and teachers, it’s
learning how to manage their time and stay organized.
For the first time, students
are faced with having multiple teachers, each with their own set of
assignments and expectations. Juggling these new academic
relationships (not to mention their extracurricular activities and
social lives) can be overwhelming for some kids. Helping children
learn to keep track of their commitments will save them a lot
frustration and will put them on the road to success in school –
and life!
On your
mark...get set... get organized!
Here are some practical ideas for
parents on how to help kids learn to organize their time and their
school work:
- Make
sure they have an assignment notebook. Talk with your children
about how to use it and why. Suggest they open it at the
beginning of each class and leave it on their desk until they
have written down their assignments. Encourage them to review it
before leaving school to be sure they bring home the books and
other materials they will need.
- Have
them use a three-ring binder to organize their papers. Children
should use one, two or as many binders as they need with
individual sections for each subject. With everything stored in
notebooks, students will more likely have their notes with them
once they get home.
- Have
them create a homework folder within their binders where they
can put all their handouts, assignments, and school
correspondence they receive during the day.
- Encourage
them to set aside time to get organized. Teach them to empty
their backpacks and homework folders after school and place
items where they belong. (This will help prevent the dreaded
"backpack-as-a-giant-black-hole--syndrome," where
important papers get lost more quickly than ships in the Bermuda
Triangle). Once papers have been sorted by subject, children can
file them in the appropriate section of the binder. Papers that
require a parent’s attention can be placed in your
"in-basket." Parents can help their children get into
the habit of making this a regular practice by sitting with them
as they weed through their papers, especially in the beginning
of the school year.
- Create
a homework supply box. An inexpensive storage container with a
lid is great for keeping homework supplies together. Make your
kids responsible for letting you know when supplies are running
low. A homework kit might include a dictionary, paper (looseleaf,
unlined, graph), sticky notes, index cards, black and blue pens,
pencils, erasers, highlighters, white-out, ruler, calculator,
stapler, scissors, glue stick, and a three-hole punch.
- Help
your children decide on a regular location to do homework. Some
kids need a very structured and quiet space. Others do fine with
a little background noise or in the company of a friend or
sibling. By settling on an acceptable location in advance,
you’ll minimize daily fights over who sits where and whether
or not it’s okay to have the television on "just this
time."
- Set
up a daily homework schedule. Some students want to get through
their assignments as soon as they get home; others need a little
time to rest and unwind. Regardless, encourage them to set aside
a specific block of time each day to complete homework – and
then stick to it! This daily routine will teach them how to plan
for homework and fit in other activities.
- Consider
a weekly family planning meeting. With kids involved in so many
activities these days, trying to synchronize every family
member’s commitments is enough to give an air traffic
controller a headache. A family planning meeting on a Sunday
afternoon or evening might help everyone "regroup" and
get organized for the coming week. Have everyone come together
and take turns plotting out their plans on a master calendar. To
ensure that this important planning meeting consistently takes
place, wrap it around a pizza party or other special family
meal.
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article, please contact the Capital Region BOCES Communications
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